My most sincere condolences to Vern's sister, children and loved ones. Vern was my best friend as we grew up together through grade school, junior high and high school. We enjoyed and aggravated each others families. He used to tell me that he was going to die young, but was going to live life to the fullest. He has indeed left us much to early. We drifted apart after high school, but my memories have lived brightly in my mind and heart. I have always admired Vern and his jest for life. I lost my 27 year old daughter about 2 years 4 months ago and there are no words I can offer to the family but that I am sorry for their tremendous loss. I regret that I did not take the time and make the effort to renew our friendship. My mother, who still lives in Tacoma on Golden Given Rd, just called and read me his obituary and I am truly sorry that I can not attend his service to say a long overdue "hello and good-bye!"
As a dear friend of mine shared when my daughter died, " The sun will still shine, just not as bright; the flowers will still smell, just not as sweet; and we will continue to live our lives, they just won't fell as complete."
"Best wishes and God's speed, my dear friend.
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