Gary Albert Buffo's Obituary
Gary Buffo was a great father, husband, brother, brother-in-law, uncle and friend. He lived his life with enthusiasm, embracing adventure in many forms – fishing; hunting; golfing; and riding his motorcycle across the country, most often with dear friends. He sought adventure and thrived on being surrounded by the beauty of nature; but it was the people and the story along the way that truly enriched his spirit.
Gary was a people person who cared about others more than himself. He served in Vietnam and had a strong bond with veterans, understanding the true cost of war. He volunteered at the V.A. Golf course for the Wounded Warriors program. He took the time to listen, understand, and remember, and most often he would do something to help and bring joy when and where it was needed most. A joke; a story; a funny gift or care package that he would deliver personally, because he was Gary. He had a gift for making people feel special, and was loved by many. He kept his friends for life and was committed to each relationship. His family was supported and blessed with his devotion and unwavering belief that family was forever. We will remember Gary for being a positive, caring person who lived his life with integrity, and was brave enough to love freely. We grieve his loss, but will try to find strength in the many things he taught us and in the bonds he made with the multitude of people who also loved him.
For over 73 years Gary lived his life with honor, always leading with love, compassion and kindness for everyone he met. Sadly, during his last couple months Gary was in a deep depression and clearly challenged with fears of diminishing physical and mental wellbeing, which ultimately resulted in him taking his own life. In his final writings, Gary asked for forgiveness for what he understood for many would be an unforgivable act. It may be hard for some to forget the violent, final act of Gary’s life, but with consideration for his mindset and appreciation for how he lived the vast majority of his life, many of us will indeed choose to forgive what he called an unforgivable act. Gary was a good man and brought smiles to many faces when they needed it most. Our dear Gary is at peace.
A graveside service will be held at Mountain View Funeral Home in Lakewood on Sunday, May 15th at 1:00 PM. A reception will follow at Oakbrook Golf Club in Lakewood at 2:30 PM.
In lieu of flowers please make donations to Friends of American Lake Veterans Golf Course, veterangolf.org/how-to-help/.
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