Valerie Jean (Stargel) Brown

Birth date: Dec 14, 1955 Death date: Jan 8, 2015

Valerie was born in Breckenridge, MN on December 14, 1955 and was the second of five children born to Gladys and Veldon Stargel. She was an avid Seahawks fan and loved her family with all her heart. She was tragically taken from t Read Obituary

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Paula Peluso Fiorino

561w ago

Dear Gladys, David, Joy Marie, Bruce and Bryan,
I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am in the tragic and unthinkable loss of Valerie's precious life. She was such a dear woman, so full of spunk and life and always sporting a beautiful, sincere smile whenever I saw her. I send my sincere condolences to all of you!
I am flooded with warm and fun memories as I reflect over my childhood, being raised across the street from your family. I was your babysitter for the kids and I loved the camping trips with you all. Valerie was always a sweet and dear child then too.
And you, Gladys, were instrumental in caring for and about us when our family was suffering. I will never forget that! I hope now that you would call on me during this time of unspeakable grief if you ever need anything.
I pray that God will grant you the Grace, Faith, Peace and Healing you need now and always, God BLess!
Love, Paula Peluso Fiorino

Aunt Doris

562w ago

in honor of Valerie.

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Micah Clausen

562w ago

in honor of Valerie.

Bryon and Duane,

I am so sorry for your loss. Valerie will truly be missed by all those who knew and loved her. In the words of Leo Buscaglia, "I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love." Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

Micah

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Roberta Bailey

562w ago

Many condolences to the Stargel Family. I have many wonderful childhood memories with Valerie. The family was very important to my spiritual growth as a girl, and always made me feel welcome to and included in their home. We lost touch over the years, but I always think of her fondly whenever I pass through the old neighborhood. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your sudden loss.
Robbie (Roberta) Bailey (Sanders)

Jeff

562w ago

Bryon and Duane,

I am so shocked and sorry to hear of your family's tragic loss. I know only time can help to heal the pain and grief you guys are going through right now. My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this time.....and always remember I'm here if you need anything.

Sincerely with love,
Jeff

Susan Soule

562w ago

Bryon,
My sincerest condolences on your loss. I'll be praying for you and your family. Keep the happy memories alive.
Susan Soule

Grace Robinson-Seim

562w ago

Bryon, Duane and family,

My deepest condolences on your loss. I want you to know that I think of you often, and I'm here for you in the difficult days ahead. Thank you for taking the time to create this space where we can all celebrate Valerie's life. I did not have the privilege of meeting her, but her warm smile reminds me of a poem titled "Laughing Heart" by Charles Bukowski:

"Your life is your life
Don't let it be clubbed into dank submission.
Be on the watch.
There are ways out.
There is a light somewhere.
It may not be much light but
It beats the darkness.
Be on the watch.
The gods will offer you chances.
Know them.
Take them.
You can't beat death but
You can beat death in life, sometimes.
And the more often you learn to do it,
The more light there will be.
Your life is your life.
Know it while you have it.
You are marvelous
The gods wait to delight
In you."

Love to you all.

Alice

562w ago

Bryon and Duane - We are so sorry for your loss. Although we didn't know your sister well, it seems this quote fits well for the life she lived.

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Maya Angelou

Lots of love to you both!
Alice and Jeff

Robin Thompson

562w ago

Bryon and Duane, I can’t find any words to provide answers or solace in this tragic loss of your sister. You have my deepest sympathy.

Mary Frawley

562w ago

Bryon, I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Valerie but she sounds very much like you. She must have been a wonderful person! My heart is with both you and Duane. Love you both.
Mary Frawley

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