I met Ruth the first time I attended a service at St. Joseph-St. John Episcopal Church almost 40 years ago. We discovered that we had a lot in common: we were both raised not far from New York City, had ancestors from upstate New York, and husbands who were avid gardeners. Ruth and Pete, and Bill end I enjoyed many dinners and visits over the years. In the past few years, Ruth and I have often gone for lunch or dinner together. One other thing we had in common was that we were both night owls. Over the years we logged thousands of hours chatting on the phone after 10 p.m.! I will miss our visits and phone calls -- in fact, I already do. Ruth was a wonderful lady and a great friend. Maureen Smallwood