A memory of Marjorie Price, alias Mom, a special feisty lady!
As I recall it, Mom had been sitting on the outside seat in a row at the Hall of Fame celebration event, most likely in 1995, at the San Diego Toastmasters International Convention, when she left it for some reason. In the meantime, I arrived and sat on this seat intending to hold some 20, or so, empty seats further along the row for my friends the overseas toastmasters.
When Mom returned, she found me sitting on "her" seat and politely
reminded me of this. As I was conscious that throughout the event my
friends would be passing in and out several times where Mom was sitting to receive
awards, to take photos, and generally to do some whooping and hollering, I gently tried to dissuade her from sitting there. But I was wasting my time - Mom was not for moving. So I beat a hasty retreat and left Mom in the sole ownership of that cherished outside seat.
As soon as the Hall of Fame began, the fun started. All those hunky Australians, New Zealanders and South Africans, accompanied by a few timid, self effacing Irishmen, began to traipse past Mom, out, and then in again, as they were called on to receive their awards. As we all supported each other, this meant all twenty of us squeezed past Mom several times. Was she upset and offended as I had anticipated? Not a bit of it! Having seventeen hunks, plus the three Irish, crawling all over her was the best part of the entire convention, it seemed.
I had no idea, of course, who Mom was until after the event was over. Then, as I wrongly thought at the time, matters were going to take a turn for the worst for me! A lady whom I recognized as an International Director, who turned out to be Mom's daughter, Darleen, arrived on the scene. As I was about to announce my candidacy the next day for such a position, offending the Director and her mother was guaranteed not to be a great start to a successful campaign for me. I needn't have worried. Mom seemed to have enjoyed her experience and she, Darleen, and I, became good friends thereafter, while the “incident” was always a topic of conversation and good humor every time we met at subsequent conferences. Indeed, Darleen was very helpful in my campaign leading up to my election as International Director the following year in St Louis.
When I discovered I would be visiting Tacoma as part of my visit to Vancouver last May, I was so pleased to get the opportunity to visit Mom in the nursing home. She seemed to know who I was and Darleen later confirmed that indeed she did. As I left her, as I suspected for the last time, I thought once again of my first meeting with Mom, a feisty lady indeed and, no doubt, still feisty at the wonderful age of 99.
As we say in Ireland about people who have passed, “the Light of Heaven to her”. May she rest in peace.
Ted Corcoran, DTM, International President 2003/2004, Toastmasters International,
Dublin, Ireland