Birth date: Oct 26, 1928 Death date: May 17, 2016
Marilyn L. Durham, age 87 of Tacoma, Washington, passed away on May 17, 2016. Born in Ilwaco, Washington on October 26, 1928. She was preceded in death by her Husband Harlton; Son Danny and Brother Gerald. Survived by her Son Davi Read Obituary
Aunt Marilyn was always so loving and upbeat, even when she wasn't feeling well. She knew so much about the family history and was so amazing. I loved visiting with her and my kids did too. She will be greatly missed. At least she can once again see her beloved husband, Uncle Doc, and shop till she drops with my mom, Vivian. Love you Aunt Marilyn!
Carol & Doug Sheaffer Family, Ada Simmons, sister-in-law
sent "Peaceful White Lillie's Basket" to Mt. View in the Garden Chapel,
to be delivered Monday 5/23/2016, for funeral service RE: Marilyn L. Durham, 5/24/2016.
Already missing my phone visits from Aunt Marilyn, the many stories and history of our family.She could recall so much, and in perfect detail. As well as fun stories, events and character's in our community keeping you laughing and in tears.
Aunt Marilyn delighted in meeting people and giving a listening ear,
concerned always for the welfare of other's and of the broken hearted.
Marilyn was proud of her Finnish roots. Enjoying a good conversation, and even more thrilled if able to speak in Finn, usually over a strong cup of coffee, with a good slice Limpu' ( Limb-poo) bread and Havarti cheese, mostly gifted at Christmas from her cousin, and a good Salmon just caught and brought in for dinner by her brother Gerald Simmons, my father.
That was a good time back than in our small town of Ilwaco.
Deep sea commercial fishing was great, holiday's were fun with community events bringing people together, and people helping one another if needed, a neighbor would be right with you to assist in whatever your need was, and whole families would be attending church together.
Marilyn was a great part of that and from what I had learned through my growing up years, she brought that life style to her Tacoma home community.
We miss you.
In Gods Rest now,
Love, your niece,
Carol Simmons Sheaffer
"I have known Marilyn for 64 years. I was her first baby sitter and took care of Danny when Dave was born. My mother (Mona Daniel) and father (Charles Daniel Sr.) were best friends of Marilyn and Lee. I loved her so much. Marilyn even helped me with my wedding in 1957 and was like a mom to me. Love and best wishes to the family as I know they will miss her a lot. Emilie Wright
I remember coming over to the house and hanging out with the boys, and messing around. I had good times. Going to miss you. GOD BLESS.
Marilyn was one of my dearest friends, a fellow Finn. She definitely had a good dose of Finnish Sisu! She was proud of her Finnish heritage and spoke better Finnish than most of us. She had a quick mind and memory. She helped on many Finnish activities.
We will miss her. Nakamiin, dear friend.
Love, Jo and Cliff Martin
I will definitely miss Marilyn coming to see me to get hair done. I got know her through her daughter in law, Janet. Thank you so much bringing her in to see me.
Wendi
