Lynn
My deepest condolences to the family on the loss of your loved one. When we lose someone we love in death, the pain, grief, and feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable. But remember that the Almighty God sees your tears, he feels your pain. He also promises by means of his kingdom (Dan 2:44) there will be a time when "death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore" (Rev 21:3,4) So until then, he will continue with you to comfort and sustain you through this very difficult time. (Psalms 55:22 )