Doug and Kathy,
I want to express my deepest of sympathies to you both. My sons and I will dearly miss James, as I feel everyone who ever knew him will.
Buddy, his father, and I attended the funeral yesterday. I want to express to you both how touched I was by your courage and strength to address this terrible thing that has occurred. The message given in the obituary and the service itself sought to express the love James felt for all the those in his life - and included the affirmation of "choosing life". This awed me,that in your grief and dispair, you thought to comfort and support all James' friends, as well as their parents, in coping with this terrible thing in a 'loving' or 'positive' way. This is not only commendable, it is really quite extrordinary. I want to thank you for this as it has helped my son tremendously, for I must admit he was ( and still is )struggling with his hurt and pain.
Again, I acknowledge your strength and courage for helping us all in this tragedy. My thoughts and prayers will be with.
Written with love in my heart-
Gina Minica
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