MY NAME IS MARIAN BOLSTAD. I FIRST MET PEGGY STOCKMAN IN 1968 WHEN I WAS HIRED AT WESTERN STATE HOSPITAL. SHE WAS MY FIRST SUPERVISOR AND TOOK ME UNDER HER WING. I DOUGHT VERY MUCH THAT I WOULD HAVE MADE IT IF NOT FOR HER GUIDANCE AND CARE. (38 YEARS I MADE IT TO RETIREMENT) I BECAME CLOSE TO PEGGY AND SHE INVITED ME OVER AFTER WORK FOR DINNER. FROM THAT DAY ON WE WERE BEST FRIENDS. SO I MET HENRY AND THE FAMILY. ALWAYS FUN TO BE AROUND AND THE BEST ALABAMA CORNBREAD AND FRIED CHICKEN. PEGGY ALWAYS LAUGHING AND GETTING AFTER HENRY, WHILE HES LAUGHING AT EVERYTHING SHES SAYING, I WATCHED AND LISTEN TO THE FAMILIES WAY OF LIFE AND IT WAS EVIDENT HOW MUCH LOVE THEY HAD FOR EACH OTHER. I ALWAYS THOUGHT THEY COULD HAVE HAD THEIR OWN SITCOM. JOHN, THE YOUNGEST WAS FUNCTIONALLY HANDICAPPED TO A DEGREE, ALWAYS GREETING ME SHOWING ME HIS VIDEO, MUSIC AND NEW MOVIES ECT . HE HAD GOTTEN FROM HIS MOM. MANY DAYS I ENJOYED WITH THIS FAMILY AND WAS THERE THROUGH HARDSHIPS AND JOYS. HENRY DANCING AND SINGING WHEN HE HAD A COUPLE OF DRINKS HE WAS EVEN MORE ENTERTAINING. I USE TO CALL HIM "OH HENRY BAR ", AFTER THE CANDY BAR. HENRY LOVED HIS KIDS TO THE MAXIMUM AND PEGGY. I KNOW HE APPRECIATED HER. SHE WAS THE ROCK IN THIS FAMILY AND WORKED HARDER THAN ANYONE I KNOW. HENRY ALWAYS SAID SHE COULD HANDLE ANYTHING AND SHE DID. HENRY WAS KIND AND GENEROUS. HE BEFRIENDED ANYONE BUT DISLIKED ANYONE WHO TRIED TO CHEAT HIM, YET ON THE OTHER HAND, HE NEVER HELD A GRUDGE THAT I KNOW OF. TIME IS SO FLEETING AND I MISSED SOME OF THESE LATER YEARS WITH THIS FAMILY. ALWAYS WILL REMEMBER EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM. LOVE MARIAN SEE YOU " OH HENRY BAR "