Birth date: Apr 23, 1960 Death date: May 18, 2006
Our precious Harmony has been called home to live with her Lord and Savior after a very sudden and brief illness.She is survived by her parents, Lora Flom and Matthias Flom, daughters Jacinta Estes and Bernadette Thompson, sons Re Read Obituary
Harmony, I can't tell you how many times I think about you. When my hair dryer turns off all by itself, I find myself saying, ok Harmony, quit messin with me! Haha! You were the bright spot in everyone's day. The smile you couldn't forget. I love you
Harmony, I'm sad that we never got to meet in person but Hi! I'm your daughter in law! I am so grateful to have your influences in my life. I am so thankful for everything that you have taught your children, especially to Eric. You raised such a great man, who is an amazing father and husband. He often talks about your laugh and coming home to a completely rearranged living room (I know why he married me-- I do that too!) I know that your children feel your loss and I can only imagine why. Every thing I hear about you is full of life and good. It breaks my heart that my children will never get to meet their grandmother but I just hope that I can do half as good of a job at raising them as you have with yours. If my sons are half the men my husband is,then I will feel good about my lifes work. I often find myself wishing you were here to answer some questions or even just to be able to watch Tristan interact with his Grandma. I know you would have liked him, he's pretty cute (looks just like Eric). I promise to make sure Eric tells him the best stories of you. Who knows how things work upstairs- maybe you met my kids before I did. Anyway, I just want you to know that I am doing my best at taking care of your youngest son, and I know that you are looking down on our family and are proud of the man he has become- but if you ever have any pointers, feel free to share-I am listening! I know that one day we will meet and we can all be together. Maybe we can even rearrange some rooms together when that day comes? :)
-Ashley Thompson##imported-begin##Ashley Thompson##imported-end##
As Christmas approaches I would like to Wish you a Merry Christmas on behalf of my family to yours your are a highly respected ladie with alot of love still floating around even though you are not here physically I know that you are looking down on your mom sisters children fred and everyone else Just remember Harmony to keep watching over them and let them know that you are still here and I will do my best to comfort them when I can lots of love and happy holiday love shelly##imported-begin##shelly fernandez##imported-end##
I will never forget you my friend.##imported-begin##Diane Hjalseth##imported-end##
Mom, it took me forever to finally be able to sign this. ive been meaning to for a long time but everytime i come here i cant do it. things get harder as everyday goes by. i miss you and i dont ever know what im doing with my life anymore, i have so many questions i need to ask you and keep finding myself lost without you. Im not the only who needs you, Bernadette needs you too, and JayC, and Noah and Hailey, and most of all Fred, i wish there was a way i could bring you back, even if it was for a day, i need to see you again, in person, i keep having nightmares about that night and it kills me everytime. my eyes are forever scarred with what i saw on that night, i dont know what to do without you Mom, you always said you be there for me growing up, but just because i turned 18 doesnt mean im grown up yet, i still need you here, im lost without you, i dont even feel the strength in me to move on, i just want to give up and let go of myself, but i know i would disappoint you by doing that, i almost cant wait til its my day to go just so i can see you again. you and Clara are the only 2 people i had that i could tell anything to and not have to worry about being judged or you getting mad at me, and now you're gone and i cant talk to about my problems anymore, and Clara cares but im not so sure she understands what i feel right now, only because she cant relate to how i feel.
To everyone who knew my mom and loved her, i thank you because you were the reason she kept going everyday and got up in the morning, she loved life and her friends and family meant the world to me.
And to Fred, you are the man i respect most on this planet, i thank you and i love you for the way you treated my mom, she was crazy about you and she talked about you like i would talk about how great you were and i love knowing that she met the man of her dreams and found the thing that completed her life before her time was up.
I love you and i miss you mom, you will forever remain in your own special place in my heart.##imported-begin##Eric##imported-end##
To the Flom Family, Its been almost 1 month since you have lost your love one Daughter,Sister,Mother,Grandmother, and Aunt I had the pleasure of getting to know some of you these past several years and wanted to thank you for letting me be a part of your family. I also want to thank each and everyone of you for having a special place in my papas heart. I know that he felt a loss also when you lost harmany for that i appreciate everything that you have done for him also for grandma lara i will always love you for taking in my mom and her sisters as well as me and my family for that i pray that you will heal and it will take some time but i have faith that you have god beside you and also my papa.For melody you will pull through all of this with a void but a strong will to carry you both you will always be one of the twins and have great memories of harmony. For Trina and Kevin I will be there for a shoulder to cry on when ever you need one call any time kalea,kade and kassidy if need to talk you can call anytime also. Missy,Jaryl,Jendy,Brian,Ronnie,Shane,Jeff, Jill and Mark Have those family gathering and lots of memories nothing will ever take the place of memories each and everyone of you hold. I will be there for you all if you just wanna call and scream and holler her name or just to laugh and cry in the day or night i will be there. Love you all paul and shelly. I hope I didn't leave any of you out .##imported-begin##shelly fernandez##imported-end##
Harmony, It seems silly to write a note to you but I'm hoping that sharing my thoughts with others will help to ease my own pain. Yesterday was difficult for me especially during church. It has been one month now & we're really missing you. You are my first thought when I wake up, you are on my mind all day, I go to bed thinking about you & I wake up all night thinking about you. I still can't believe you're not here. I know you'll always be in our hearts but I want to laugh with you (& yes,sometimes at you) & I want to sing with you & I want to put my arms around you & I can't. There are no words that can make anyone understand just HOW close we all remained as adults. We are all Best Friends. When you introduced us to any of your friends, it was obvious that you were proud of us & I want you to know we were proud of you too. You are the friendliest person I've ever known & I wish I could be more like you. I miss you so much & it's getting worse every day. I see your face & beautiful smile constantly, I hear your laughter as clearly as if you were sitting in my room. I'm so thankful we all spent that last week-end together, dancing & Mothers Day. Roni video taped our last slumber party - you are so cute, always ready to smile for any camera. Hailey says "Hi Emma" when we watch it.
I was sharing stories about you with some friends when I realized just how many personal things the two of us shared. You helped me so much when I was learning to be a 1st time mom with Kaela. You helped inspire her love of sports. During Kassidy's delivery the cord was caught around her neck & I'm not sure she would have survived if you hadn't been there to help me before the doctor's arrival. You are Kade's Godmother & I'm still counting on you to help guide him throughout his life. You & Rich were with me the night we thought we were losing Kevin & I know that you always believed something spiritual happened that night. Thank You for all of those things & more. Everyone is missing you but Kade has assured us you've received your "white" wings. I got the message about the scapular - thanks for the reminder.
We all went out & sang some of your favorite songs. I kept your envelope & I'll try to do one each time we visit your friends in Roy. I only wish I could belt it out like you always did. You would've been proud of Jill. Your kids have some talent too - I'm sure you were watching us. You know Kevin & I love music as much as you did. We sang I Got You Babe just for you but I think I was Sonny & he was Cher - oops!
There are so many things I wish I would've said to you but I take comfort in knowing we always parted with a hug & "I love You".
Please trust that we are staying close with your children. They can count on any of us for anything & Rich, Patti & Mike are here for them too. We will always keep Fred in our family circle. We love him not only because he loved you so much but because he is a good person. You know when Kaela is so drawn to someone, he must have good qualities. Fred is so sad, I only hope that one day we can believe time will heal the pain. People say that but right now it doesn't make sense to any of us. I only feel ok when I'm with our entire family. Mom is more sad than I ever could have imagined but as always she is the strongest lady we know. Dad doesn't seem to want to be away from us. I worry about Jeff & Shane, please watch over them. Each of us sisters misses you in our own way. As always we are leaning on each other but I wonder, is it worse for Melody? I don't know, it must be. I do know she is stronger than she realizes.
I pray for you every day & I hope that you are putting in a good word for each of us. This is getting lengthy & I feel like I still have not expressed how much we miss you & everything you meant to us. Until we meet again, I will always love you, I will always remember you & I will always feel honored to be your sister. You are one of the few that always called me by my full name so I'll sign this,
With my Love & Admiration Forever, Katrina##imported-begin##Katrina
To my Family,
Mom, I love you so much & I'm so sorry you're hurting right now. You have always been a strong woman, please lean on us now.
Dad, Ilove you. Please talk to any of us if you need to share your thoughts.
Mom & Dad, Thank You for sharing your faith in God with us as we were growing up.
To my Sisters, What can I say, you all know how much I love you & we all know how much we can depend on one another. There were never a closer group of sisters & I know you each feel the absence of Harmony as deeply as I do. It is amazing with this many of us how much one is missed. I am here for each of you any time.
To my Brothers, I know the two of you probably feel left out sometimes. Sisters are just that way, sorry. Please know that we love you equally & we know that you are hurting too. Both of you can depend on all of us anytime.
TO MY NIECES & NEPHEWS,
No one can replace your beautiful mother & Emma, but we are here for all of you. Please come to any of us any time. Harmony would want us to step up & mother you. So if we give you unwanted advice just remember we're working on her behalf. No one knows the kind of motherly advice she would offer, better than her sisters & her mother. I know you are hurting so much. It does not seem fair to lose such a wonderful person, but remember how happy she was & how her faith got her through things. Your mom would want you to trust God right now. Please go to church & remember your prayers the way she taught you. I love you all.
Fred, Thank You for loving Harmony so much. She really loved you too & was proud to say so. I know you feel like your heart is breaking & our hearts ache for you. Please remember that she wanted you to have faith in God. I know it is not easy when you miss her so much. One of the best ways you can honor her memory is to believe in God & trust that he knows the right time for each of us. Our family welcomes you into our lives & hearts forever. Call or come over any time. Oh, and visit that new baby often, you know she would. She'd think it was special that God sent your family a new life to love at the same time he took her home. We love you.
To our numerous family & friends,
Thank You for all the love & support this past month. You are all special to us. Remember to tell the people in your lives how much they mean to you.
With Love to my Family,
Katrina
P.S. To Kevin & my kids, I hope life with me hasn't been too rough. I love you.##imported-begin##Katrina##imported-end##
Mom, i still cant believe that you are gone. people keep telling me that God needs you more than we do now, but i just cant believe that. Noah and Hailey are still way too little to lose their "Emma"
Hailey gets so excited evey time she sees your picture, i know they miss you. i am not ready to lose you either. its not fair that you had to go so soon, you were so young and full of life and you loved life. the only thing that helps me through this is knowing that you are close to God now and watching over us. I still talk to you every day on the way home from work, only now its not on the phone. i know you can hear me i just wish i could hear you. i want to hear your laugh again, and see your smile again, and feel you hug me when im sad. i am sad now mom because i have two little babies to raise and i still need you. every situation has lessons learned and some good things have come from this but jordan and i would have started talking again without having to lose you. i miss you mom, and i miss the dorky things you used to do so if you need something to rearrange, feel free to change my living room because i have no idea what to do with it! i love you mom and i always will. Love, JaCinta##imported-begin##Jacinta##imported-end##
Mama I know that your room was ready for you in heaven and that is why God took you. I know that you were excited to get to go to heaven and be close to God but there are so many things that I still need your help with. But I know that you will be watching over me, guiding me through it all. It makes things easier knowing that your last year was spent with Fred and you were so happy and full of life and love. Now that you are in heaven could you help with my room? I love you so much Mama!##imported-begin##Bernadette##imported-end##
