My Mother
In the beginning, the first thing I remember is being tossed into the air by my father, who evidently thought throwing a kid in the air was funny. But all of a sudden, I heard this scream, “Duane, you’re going to drop him” from my always-protective mother. That was the beginning of my experience with a Super Woman: Intelligent, Beautiful, Tough, Compassionate, a maker of pies, cakes, even butter, and who canned and froze vegetables and fruit, plus worked 40 hours a week at her “day job.”
There was a time in my life, after my father died (1971), however, that I started screwing up my relationship with my mother. I stayed out all night, basically running with the devil, not understanding how I was hurting my her. But eventually, by the grace of God, we got through it. And I am totally grateful for her support, understanding, always being there for me, and her unconditional love. Plus, she was great at crossword puzzles, Scrabble, and her knowledge of trivia was hard to beat.
Mom was the matriarch of the family, and my neighbor for 24-plus years. God bless you, Mom. I will forever love you! R.I.P.
-- Kevin