In the last 2 years, I had the opportunity to visit Paul numerous times on my way to see Ashley in Portland. Due to Covid most of our visits took place outside on the patio. Rain or shine we would have our visits. Paul was very happy with his new apartment and tried to explain in detail what his apartment looked like and how much he enjoyed his new TV and recliner. He stated, its too bad you can't come up. Say, no more brother! So, on my next visit I made it my mission to figure out how to sneak in to surprise him. I parked in front of his apartment building and got the lay of the land. The main entrance and elevator was clear. I finally made my move, walked in and boarded the elevator undetected. I was in.I found his apartment and knocked on the door and surprised him! He laughed so hard and once again we felt like unruly children.
June 4th was the last time I would visit Paul as he had been placed in a health care facility due to a fall. It was unclear if I would be able to see him stated the receptionist, via the phone. They had rules! Not to be deterred. I stopped by the Donut Shop and picked up 2 dozen donuts. If all else failed, I would try to bribe my way in. I explained I was visiting from California, and wanted to see my brother before I returned home. After showing license, immunization card and all those donuts, I was granted visitation with my brother on the patio. If you know Paul you know like all his siblings we all love donuts. So we shared a donut that day on the patio. It was one of those beautiful days in Washington; sunny, clear skies and warm. It was the last time I saw my brother.
Rest In Peace Brother. May our Heavenly Father and his grace be with you in this your last journey!
Jean
