As a Ward Administrator at Western State Hospital, had the great privilege to work every day side by side with the brilliant, kind, compassionate, incredibly hard working and funny Dr. Corazon Salvador. We laughed together, sat quietly together, and shared little pieces of our lives over the past year. I learned so much about psychiatry from her and was amazed by her power of observation and the ways she would tweak and adjust medications, sometimes with miraculous results for our patients. Dr Salvador was also deeply private and it felt like a gift when she would open up a little and share something about her home repair woes, a new vitamins she thought she would try or two sons (aged 16 and 24) who she loved fiercely and worried over as all moms do. When I said goodbye to her on my last day at WSH at the end of January we both cried and she told me I had become like a sister to her (to be fair she has many "sisters" and "brothers" at work who loved her as I did). I knew I was unlikely to see her again outside of work because we never progressed beyond "work friends" and losing her from my life was one of my few regrets about changing jobs. I was so devastated to learn that she became sick in February and already she is gone.
Today, I am thinking of our times together and most of all of her sons and husband who must be totally lost in an unfathomable world without her. I am remembering her smile and her patience and the way she would manage her irritation like an absolute saint; when someone pushed her to her limits she would say, "kindly, in the future, please do not..."
Tomorrow is never promised. Let's all, kindly, in her memory live today with that in mind ♥️