Adam Ray Staples

Birth date: Sep 27, 1986 Death date: Aug 19, 2003

ADAM RAY STAPLESK.O.B BRUDY BOY -AD-BUDDYA loved son of Julie A. and Clinton K. Staples. A sweet brother to three sisters Amanda, Alizabeth, and Ashawn. The proud grandson of Dick and Naida Webster, Ben and Donna Crus, Sheila Stap Read Obituary

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Anonymous

980w ago

hey brudy, how have u been? hopefully good up there with all our family members who have passed away. life has been really had wih out u. i seem to be so happy but i am not i feel like i am dieing inside. u held are family together and it has fallin apart. dad is haveing such a hard time moving on he holds all his pain inside and doesent really know that he is takeing his pain out on us. i love dad but it hurts talking to him knowing he is not the same and he will never be the same. i miss my dad and i miss my big brother. i see little sisters with there big brothers and it hurts knowing i don't have on here. i know u are in my heart and that u will never leave but it would be easier and way better if u where here in person. i don't let anybody walk over me i tell it how it is and i don't take crap from anybody not even dad. me and dad got into a fight and i punched him in his face, it felt good cuz i was able to let go of the fact that he has changed and that he will never be the same, i don't fight with him on the phone cuz he moved to utah. he's by u. maybe it will help him. mom is trying to hard to take care of me and ashawn but i can tell u we have been making life so hard on her i love her so much but when i get mad i don't know how to talk about it. i just yell and then feel bad cuz i have now right to treat her the way i have been.mom trys her hardest and when she feels like she is finally going to make it i push her hope back down cuz i can't get my hopes up like her. mom is so strong adam u wouldn't believe how strong she is she has stayed by are sides and has does everything she can for us. i can tell she hurts but i know i can't help her becuz i can't help myself. adam i hide everything i am feeling behide my laugter and my smile and i hope that nobody can tell so they will think i am strong. its working so far but i can't handle it anymore i just wanna cry so bad but i wanna be strong for mom. she lost her only son somebody who was always there to make her smile when shes down somebody that can make her happy when she sad. i try to do that but i am not u. that was your relationship with mom. adam my heart hurts cuz i am not helping mom at all i clean but then i go out and try to do stuff to take away the pain but its not helping anymore. i need to get a job and i need to quit doing all the bad stuff that i have been doing. i need help i can't ask god cuz he's busy with everybody else and busy with the people who hurt more than me. so i am asking u my big brother to please help me please. i can't go to family cuz they don't know how to help but i know u do please help me, mom, ashawn, amanda and dad we really need it nomatter if we don't wanna admit it. oh and your going to be an uncle but u already know that.lol just make sure the baby is safe and healthy. i love u adam and i miss u so much. i just wish that u where here. i love u.
R.I.P brudy!!!
love always,
ur little sister,
B.Alizabeth M. Staples##imported-begin##Ali##imported-end##

Anonymous

987w ago

hey adam,
what are u up to we all really miss u adam. will if u dont know i have boyfriend now his name is james carter. just wanted to say i love u so much
love ya bubby
pooh near aka asahwn##imported-begin##pooh bear##imported-end##

Anonymous

1031w ago

hey adam
i love u so much and i miss u.so are u have fun up there.i know u can not answer the Question but o will.will i got to go i love u adam. i miss u.##imported-begin##pooh##imported-end##

Anonymous

1031w ago

Addy,
Its time I let it out... I get angry Addy when I think about what you could have been, should have been, the pain that all of us are left with. I know you didnt mean it, I know that you would change it if you could, but I think about all of the pain that your family feels and I just wanna grab you and shake the shit out of you and say "Are you happy"
"Was it worth it". Then I think about all of the smiles and the laughter and I know that it wasnt a punishment to us, yet your ignorant innocence thats all. I love you little cousin and I miss you so much. I think about when you were a baby with those big blue eyes and white hair and a smile comes across my face. You were odacious addy so much so that our hearts will never forget the way you lit up a room. I remember that day addy I got off the phone and colapsed to the floor blubbering like a fool. I scared the hell out my little girl she had no idea what was going on (lucky her). I think I must have held my breath for what seemed like forever and then I thought how do I comfort them, my family, the ones dying inside even more than myself. I dont think I truly believed it until I pulled up to the house. I dont know if their loss can be measured by words, tears or condolences. I hurt most for your parents with whom I love and who dont deserve to know what this pain feels like. I miss ya and I love you and God bless you Addy
Love your cousin Shannon
P.S. Julz you amaze me and I love you for your strength. I know everyday is a struggle without you having to say the words, I know I cant take away the pain but thats the beauty of life right, if I took away your pain I would be taking away a part of him. I love you and I will always be here for you.##imported-begin##Your cuz, Shannon##imported-end##

Anonymous

1046w ago

19TH Happy Birthday BUD!!! LOVE AND MISS YOU BUDDY boy !!!!
I can see you eatting your cake. Sorry I'm not there to put your face in it ...
I would hate to tell you but Ali would have kicked your but... AShawn would shove it up your nose...
Be good or your grampa
is gooing to you in the ass..
Give Grampa a bear hug'' I love you son... I miss your hugs even more today remembering holding you in my arms and cleaning you up.
I held you 4 hr that day now I hold you deep in my heart.. Got to go now##imported-begin##dad##imported-end##

Anonymous

1052w ago

I have seen and still see the pain and stife that everyone has gone through since Adam passed. There is nothing anyone can say or do to make the pain better. I do know that talking about Adam will ease a little, I see that in my best friend Kasee (shannon) Adams cousin, I see that if we just sit and talk about Adam she feels better, I just wish that could have been the case for everyone else, especially clint. we have all seen the results of bottling your feelings inside and not telling anyone so I hope for you Ashawn being you were the one that found him, I hope that through your life you will continue to talk about Adam it will only help you to be stonger and become a better person as apposed to NOT talking about him and same goes for you Ali. And Julie I truely hope that someday soon you will find your self and sense of belonging again but in the mean time there are many of us here for you whether you want to believe it or not. I want to post this poem I wrote in 2000, it has recently became a tradition in passings of dear friends and family's and I hope that these words help you ALL to continue to cope with adams death, then, now, and in the future. Take care and you all know I love you very much not only as a family friend but just as a friend who will listen.
My Spirit Is Free
I am still here,
Please don't mourn for me,
I am still here,
Though you cannot see.
I am right by your side,
Each night and day,
And within your heart,
I long to stay.
My body is gone,
Yet I am always near,
I am everything you feel,
See and hear.
My spirit is free,
Yet I will never depart,
Just as long as you keep me,
Alive in your heart.
I will never wander,
Out of your sight,
I am the brightest star,
That shines in the night.
I will never be,
Beyond your reach,
I am the warm moist sand,
When you are out on the beach.
I am the colorful leaves,
When fall comes around,
And the pure white snow,
That blankets the ground.
I am the beautiful flower,
Of which you are so fond,
And the clear waters,
That be stills in a pond.
I am the first bright blossom,
You will see in the spring,
The first elegant rainbow,
That April will bring.
I am the first ray of light,
When the sun starts to shine,
And you will see,
That every face on the moon is mine.
When you start to think,
That there is no one to love,
You can talk to me,
Through the Lord above.
I will whisper my answers,
Through the limbs of the trees,
And you will always feel my presence,
In the soft summer breeze.
I am the warm salty tears,
That flow when you weep,
And the beautiful dreams,
That come when you sleep.
I am the smile you see,
On each and every face,
I am the beauty of a song,
That is sung in praise.
I am just beneath,
Every voice you may hear,
That will give you advice,
And lift you with cheer.
I am the wind,
That will blow through your hair,
So just look for me,
Because I am everywhere.
By: Jody L. Moody
Â© copyright Dec. 28, 2000##imported-begin##Jody##imported-end##

Anonymous

1053w ago

hey brudy it's me i haven't cryed over u sence ur funral.i can't cry cuz it hurts so bad i get the tears but hold them back. ur my only brother and we competed at everything sports, school and ect. i miss u so much todays august 13, 2005 at 8:55pm mom was here reading what every body wrote and i never wrote in here beacuse i'm not strong enogh i still aint. i see ur pictures and wanna cry but like u said cryings for pussy's, lol i just wish u where here to be my brother and protect me from my guys like with amanda. i know i'm suppost to write my memories but telling u how i miss u and love u and how i feel cuz it makes me feel closer to u. all i wanna know is why u left? why did u leave us like this mom and dad are divorced, dad is treating us like where not his kids and i think if u where here u would tell him off and try to stand up for us. i bet u would be able to beat his ass. mom, cassie, ashawn, and my friend sarah r haveing a good time. there laughing. mom needs help brudy i pray for her every night almost. mom and dad need u. but u had to be an ass and leave. i just want u to be at ashli's then come home and see ur smile. i wanna see ur lolly pop dance well i have to go beacause we got to go get willis's truck just to let u know thats amandas man. lol brudy i love u so much and wish i can see u in person just 1 last time. love u.
ur little sister,
b.alizabeth.m.staples##imported-begin##little shit #1##imported-end##

Anonymous

1053w ago

HEY ADAM I HATE U OK U ARE A ASSHOLE AND WE ALL MISS U SO MUCK OK I FOUND U DEAD SO WHAT U ARE STLL MY BROTHER U ARE A COP OUT OK AND I LOVE U AN DU TOLED ME IF I CAY IM A PUSSY SO I DO NOT CAY OVER U OR NEED THING AND WE HAVE UR STUFF LOVE U BYE
PS HAVE A GOOD LIFE UP THERE OK LOVE U BYE##imported-begin##pooh##imported-end##

Anonymous

1102w ago

HI. sorry for your lost. i pray for your family and adam everynight. Adam i never did once stop thinking about you. im sorry that i never got to tell you how i feel, when you had told me. i know that you are in a better place right now and that you are watching over all of us especally your family. i wish that i could have been there for you when you needed someone but i wasnt. IM SORRY. Adam i love you with all of my heart and you were my best friend that i had. i could run to you and tell you everything and you would some how help me out with them and you would always make me laugh. I didnt get to say goodbye to you. I didnt even go to say good bye found out the day after. im sorry i wish i was there i would of felt better then how i do now. i have to live my life knowing that i did not go to my best friend funral and that hurts me really bad. but I LOVE YOU and no matter what there is never a good bye between us, we will always be together and always meet up again hopefully soon. I Love you adam and i miss you with all my heart. To the family, im truly sorry for your lost, i know that he is with you guys all the time and he loves you guys with all his hearts.
R.I.P adam.
Love you always adam
Kelli##imported-begin##kelli##imported-end##

Anonymous

1103w ago

Addy,
It has been a whole year now, but still fresh in the minds of all who love you, the loss that we feel. I found that with this last year and thoughts of you, that I must try to remember that I will grieve within my lifetime for the times we will not share, but rejoice in that promise of the future, for God has promised us eternity and that brings me peace of mind knowing that you will tickle me again one day. I will never forget your laughter, smile and your wonderful dance. I miss you addy and will think of you often. Your cuz, Shannon
Julz,
Your my bestest friend and my favorite cousin, I hope that with the love of your family, friends and the beautiful memories you have that things will get easier with time. It has been great to see you smile and heartbreaking to watch you cry, but I know that you are sooo strong and I know that adam is proud of you! I love you all so much and I am always here even if you dont want to talk.##imported-begin##Shannon##imported-end##

Anonymous

980w ago

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